Don’t Give Up

Daily writing prompt
What’s your top tip to be successful in life?

Success is often painted as a grand destination — a shining trophy, a dream job, a house, or a title. But the truth is, success is far more personal, far more fluid, and far more humble than society makes it out to be.

As long as you don’t give up, you haven’t failed. That’s the most powerful life lesson I’ve learned. Life isn’t meant to be easy, and everyone carries their own challenges. What feels simple to one person might be someone else’s Mt. Everest.

Would I call myself successful? Honestly, I don’t think so. And maybe I never will. I was taught to always strive for better, to keep moving forward. I’ve achieved small goals — a degree, a job, milestones that others might call success. But for me, each achievement only opens the door to the next challenge.

If I earn a degree, the next step is finding a good job. If I secure that job, the next goal is saving enough to buy a home. For some, securing a job is the pinnacle of success. For me, it’s just one step on a longer journey.

The one truth that never changes is this: success comes to those who keep trying. Even when the world feels against you, even when everything seems to fall apart, resilience matters. Take the break you need. Step back if you must — even a hundred steps back. But always, always take that step forward afterward.

For me, success is simple: one day closer. Have you made it farther than you were yesterday? Not in comparison to someone else, but in comparison to yourself. If you are better today than you were yesterday, you are successful.

In a world that can be cruel and unforgiving, progress itself is victory. It may not look like success to everyone else, but it is yours — and that is more than enough.

Needs Vs. Wants

Daily writing prompt
What motivates you?

I know that many would say that motivation comes from circumstances or family of friends. Considering that I am a quite lazy person, for me to actually start or rather continue something the only thing that can motivate me is Me.

I do not do anything unless I am able to move the things that I want to things that I need. I need to come to a sort of self actualization that unless I get that particular thing done I will be embarrassed to look at myself in the mirror. Just wanting things has never pushed me to achieve the difficult goals in life. Neither does my family wanting things for me motivate me to achieve them. My goals need to become my necessity and when that happens I “move mountains” to reach it. I force myself to find a way. I keep reminding myself that I can only do it if I put the effort. And little by little the finish line draws closer to me.

Being realistic, I do quit quite often in between. But, the times that I am able to reprogram myself I end up doing things much better than what I expected.